Our family in no way, shape or form, agreed to do a show about "Church Girls Gone Wild"! Although according to some of the messages we've received from fans of the show, it may seem that way, following the first episode of Season 2, which aired last Wednesday. Frankly, we can see why you'd come to that conclusion and trust me, we were cringing at some of it too. But, we are confident that the show will prove to be about faith, restoration and reconciliation, as we were promised, or we wouldn't have been involved. You can call us naive, but that's just the plain truth. Yes, we were SHOCKED too (we heard you loud and clear!) by this 1st episode, but we trust the show, the network and our producers that it will take a positive direction throughout Season 2, just as Season 1 proved to do, and we are asking you to trust the process as well.
The Koloff's are ONLY responsible for our own actions and are proud of our participation and the vulnerability we shared throughout the filming of Season 2. You will see throughout this season that we faced challenges as a family, yet overcame them with the help of Jesus Christ, our faith in Him and our love and respect for one another. I'm incredibly proud of my entire family (including my ex-husband, Nikita). We've never claimed to be perfect or have all the answers, but we know and love The One who does. (The only thing I regret pertaining this season is my horrible haircut! I'm thankful my hair has grown out!).
Although we don't know what the upcoming episodes will contain, we're staying positive and believe that in the end, all the families will find their way and the initial premise of the show will be fulfilled. We have NO idea what any family, besides our own, filmed. We're trying to keep in mind that it's a great witness to see where someone started, but more important how they finish! We're rooting for all the families.
With that said, we will NOT be allowing my granddaughter, Salem (who's only 4 years old), to watch our show until we've watched it first, only allowing her to view what is appropriate. I would
encourage those of you with young children to do the same. Our show is PG-13.
We've always believed that our show would focus on real life struggles Christians go through and show how their faith in Jesus Christ is the glue that holds them together and gets them through anything and everything they are faced with. We still believe this will prove to be the case in the long run.
We only met the Elliott's and Cassidy's several weeks ago. They are wonderful people. And we feel confident to say their heart and intentions are in the same place as ours. Just because we faced different obstacles in our different and separate families, does not negate the act that each and every family on this show loves The Lord and each other very much! And it most assuredly doesn't mean one family is better than another.
Keep watching and praying for lives to continually be touched and changed by "Preachers Daughters!"
See you on Wednesdays at 9/8c on Lifetime!
And, be sure to check out our brand new website, www.TheKoloffs.com and
Follow us on Facebook at: The Koloff's of Preachers Daughters
Sunday, March 9, 2014
Friday, March 7, 2014
We're BAAAAACCCCCKKK!
With the amazing success of the first season of "Preacher's Daughters", Season 2 is now upon us! From the responses from the fans and the increase in our viewership, it looks like Season 2 promises to be as much or more successful than Season 1! First, let me say on behalf of my family, that we are so appreciative of the love and support you've shown us. We read all of your messages and are so encouraged by how our family is ministering to you!
Episode 1, Season 2, was off the hook! You were introduced to two new families, The Elliott's and The Cassidy's. We met these families a couple of months ago, while in NYC shooting promotional ads. Our families enjoyed spending time and getting to know each other.
I must admit, although my daughter's and I have had our share of drama over the years, I'm grateful that our issues haven't dealt with alcoholism or drugs. My heart breaks for the girls and their families, who've been robbed of precious time because of these addictions. Let's keep all the families in our prayers, as this show is about restoration and reconciliation, not "Church Girls Gone Wild"! It may appear a little crazy right now, but it's important to see where these girls started and even more so, where they finish. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised throughout the season to find that they aren't who you may think they are. As I've had the privilege to get to know them, I assure you these are God loving families, who love each other very much. They are very like-able and really nice people.
Our family has been inundated with messages from the great fans of PD requesting more air time for The Koloff's, with so many of you even asking for a Koloff Show, which is very sweet! We want you to know that we are humbled by your remarks, but, understand, we have nothing to do with the editing or content of the show, besides what we participated in during filming. Keep in mind that the
producers are introducing you to two new families, so I'm not surprised they're taking extra air time to make that happen. Unless they cut out all of the Koloff Family footage, we will be on the show throughout Season 2, so no worries!
On with the re-cap. This episode focused around Kolby's decision to attend college after high school or give a year to ministry, as well as, asking for financial help from her father to help us buy her a car.
First, let's talk about the car situation. When Kolby asked her father to help us purchase a car, Nikita informed her that he would only do this if she read the entire Bible and then wrote an essay on each book. This would have taken her months and consumed her entire summer! Don't hear what I'm NOT saying. Reading through the Bible is what ALL Christians should aspire to do, but using the Bible as a negotiating tool is manipulative to say the least. It's nothing short of bribery and how is that biblical? When Kolby told me this, I was pissed. I felt it wasn't fair and I became incredibly
angry about it. This became a huge point of contention between Nikita and I. We had many arguments and disagreements over this for months. You didn't see that on camera. I completely, 100% disagree with him on this. I'm not saying we should hand our kids keys to brand new cars either, but I see NOTHING wrong with helping our children financially when we're in a position to do so. That doesn't mean giving them anything they want, without their earning it. Kolby is a great kid. She's an Honor Student, responsible and trustworthy. But, Nikita made it very clear. If you want my financial help, I'll only give you $2000 after you've met my requirements. After Kolby told me of her father's offer, I told her to let him know she and I would figure it out on our own. And, that's exactly what we did. Long story short, Kolby and I put our funds together and bought her a car. Granted, it's an older model, with miles on it, but we did it! Kolby is responsible for the gas and insurance. For the record, Kolby reads the Bible because she wants to, not because she's forced to.
Then, there was the issue of college. In my opinion, this decision is Kolby's, not mine, nor her Dad's. Kolby's future is between her and God. That doesn't mean we shouldn't give her guidance or help her along the way, but the ultimate decision is hers. Nikita's rule has always been if the girls' want
financial help from him to attend college, they must give a year of ministry post high school. And, trust me on this. He's not kidding.
Here's why this is such wrong thinking to mAs Christians, I believe we are all called to be ministers of the Gospel. But, that doesn't necessarily mean it has to be from a pulpit, living on the mission field in another country or pastoring a church. And I absolutely don't believe you can or should force ministry on anyone. If Kolby or any of my daughters aren't called by God, (not Nikita), into pastoral or missions ministry, it doesn't matter how long they serve in that capacity, they won't stay. And even if they did, they'd be miserable. I know many people who, out of guilt, went into ministry when they weren't called to that type of ministry, only to be left unfulfilled.
Whatever Kolby decides, I will support her in any way I can. I know God has a call on all of our lives. But, I leave it up to Him to show us.
God has a call on yours too. Maybe your mission field is your workplace? Maybe it's in your neighborhood? Maybe it's living in another country building homes for the poor? Whatever it is, He will show you. Just ask Him:)
Be sure to check out our new website www.TheKoloffs.com and see some of the shirts the girls and I designed! We hope you like them!
And be sure you're following us on twitter @thekoloffs, @victoriakoloff, @kolbykoloff, @terynchapin, @tawnikoloff and @kendrakoloff
See you next week! There's plenty more coming! Tune in Wednesday 9/8c on Lifetime
Episode 1, Season 2, was off the hook! You were introduced to two new families, The Elliott's and The Cassidy's. We met these families a couple of months ago, while in NYC shooting promotional ads. Our families enjoyed spending time and getting to know each other.
I must admit, although my daughter's and I have had our share of drama over the years, I'm grateful that our issues haven't dealt with alcoholism or drugs. My heart breaks for the girls and their families, who've been robbed of precious time because of these addictions. Let's keep all the families in our prayers, as this show is about restoration and reconciliation, not "Church Girls Gone Wild"! It may appear a little crazy right now, but it's important to see where these girls started and even more so, where they finish. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised throughout the season to find that they aren't who you may think they are. As I've had the privilege to get to know them, I assure you these are God loving families, who love each other very much. They are very like-able and really nice people.
Our family has been inundated with messages from the great fans of PD requesting more air time for The Koloff's, with so many of you even asking for a Koloff Show, which is very sweet! We want you to know that we are humbled by your remarks, but, understand, we have nothing to do with the editing or content of the show, besides what we participated in during filming. Keep in mind that the
producers are introducing you to two new families, so I'm not surprised they're taking extra air time to make that happen. Unless they cut out all of the Koloff Family footage, we will be on the show throughout Season 2, so no worries!
On with the re-cap. This episode focused around Kolby's decision to attend college after high school or give a year to ministry, as well as, asking for financial help from her father to help us buy her a car.
First, let's talk about the car situation. When Kolby asked her father to help us purchase a car, Nikita informed her that he would only do this if she read the entire Bible and then wrote an essay on each book. This would have taken her months and consumed her entire summer! Don't hear what I'm NOT saying. Reading through the Bible is what ALL Christians should aspire to do, but using the Bible as a negotiating tool is manipulative to say the least. It's nothing short of bribery and how is that biblical? When Kolby told me this, I was pissed. I felt it wasn't fair and I became incredibly
angry about it. This became a huge point of contention between Nikita and I. We had many arguments and disagreements over this for months. You didn't see that on camera. I completely, 100% disagree with him on this. I'm not saying we should hand our kids keys to brand new cars either, but I see NOTHING wrong with helping our children financially when we're in a position to do so. That doesn't mean giving them anything they want, without their earning it. Kolby is a great kid. She's an Honor Student, responsible and trustworthy. But, Nikita made it very clear. If you want my financial help, I'll only give you $2000 after you've met my requirements. After Kolby told me of her father's offer, I told her to let him know she and I would figure it out on our own. And, that's exactly what we did. Long story short, Kolby and I put our funds together and bought her a car. Granted, it's an older model, with miles on it, but we did it! Kolby is responsible for the gas and insurance. For the record, Kolby reads the Bible because she wants to, not because she's forced to.
Then, there was the issue of college. In my opinion, this decision is Kolby's, not mine, nor her Dad's. Kolby's future is between her and God. That doesn't mean we shouldn't give her guidance or help her along the way, but the ultimate decision is hers. Nikita's rule has always been if the girls' want
financial help from him to attend college, they must give a year of ministry post high school. And, trust me on this. He's not kidding.
Here's why this is such wrong thinking to mAs Christians, I believe we are all called to be ministers of the Gospel. But, that doesn't necessarily mean it has to be from a pulpit, living on the mission field in another country or pastoring a church. And I absolutely don't believe you can or should force ministry on anyone. If Kolby or any of my daughters aren't called by God, (not Nikita), into pastoral or missions ministry, it doesn't matter how long they serve in that capacity, they won't stay. And even if they did, they'd be miserable. I know many people who, out of guilt, went into ministry when they weren't called to that type of ministry, only to be left unfulfilled.
Whatever Kolby decides, I will support her in any way I can. I know God has a call on all of our lives. But, I leave it up to Him to show us.
God has a call on yours too. Maybe your mission field is your workplace? Maybe it's in your neighborhood? Maybe it's living in another country building homes for the poor? Whatever it is, He will show you. Just ask Him:)
Be sure to check out our new website www.TheKoloffs.com and see some of the shirts the girls and I designed! We hope you like them!
And be sure you're following us on twitter @thekoloffs, @victoriakoloff, @kolbykoloff, @terynchapin, @tawnikoloff and @kendrakoloff
See you next week! There's plenty more coming! Tune in Wednesday 9/8c on Lifetime
Sunday, January 26, 2014
The Mike & Victoria Show
Several months ago, I was invited to a lunch meeting that enhanced my already busy career. As I accepted this meeting, I had no idea how it was going to compliment my career in radio. For the past 2.5 years, I'd been hosting "Real Talk" with Victoria in the Nashville area, so I wasn't completely surprised that the General Manager, Mike Downhour, of Opus Broadcasting and their Program Director, Mike Carson, wanted to meet with me. But, I was pleasantly surprised as to why.
The "Two Mike's", as I like to call them, were very interested in my work in radio and also television. And they wanted to make me an offer. They were interested in me co-hosting a brand new show on their newest venture, 104.3TheBridge, the only local Christian radio station in Central Louisiana, with Mike Carson.
The guys' and I hit it off immediately. It was like having lunch with old friends. We talked non-stop for 2.5 hours. By the time our meeting was over, we had a plan.
That plan became "The Mike and Victoria Show". Over a grilled chicken sandwich and great conversation, I was now the new co-host of a radio show heard by thousands, with the potential of so much more. To me, being a radio personality on a Christian radio station is more than just a job, it's a responsibility, as it's another form of ministry. This was a way to reach even more people with a message that's very important me. The message of my faith in Jesus Christ. Now, just a few short months later, I'm having the time of my life!
Co-hosting "The Mike and Victoria Show" on 104.3 The Bridge is a privilege. We don't take it lightly, nor do we take it for granted. Daily, we have the opportunity to share our hopes, dreams, struggles, and most importantly, our faith with loyal listeners. You can hear our show online from anywhere in the world at www.1043thebridge.com or if you're in Central Louisiana on 104.3 on your radio dial every weekday from 10am-2pm (CST).
Not only are Mike and I co-hosting a show on The Bridge, but we're also on the afternoons from 2pm-6pm on 92.3 The Wolf, one of the top country stations in Monroe, Louisiana.
We believe our show has what it takes to one day be in syndication. That's pretty exciting!
I hope you'll be tuning in everyday! Whether you enjoy Christian music or Country, we know you'll have a blast on "The Mike and Victoria Show".
Who knows, like us, you might like both!
The "Two Mike's", as I like to call them, were very interested in my work in radio and also television. And they wanted to make me an offer. They were interested in me co-hosting a brand new show on their newest venture, 104.3TheBridge, the only local Christian radio station in Central Louisiana, with Mike Carson.
The guys' and I hit it off immediately. It was like having lunch with old friends. We talked non-stop for 2.5 hours. By the time our meeting was over, we had a plan.
That plan became "The Mike and Victoria Show". Over a grilled chicken sandwich and great conversation, I was now the new co-host of a radio show heard by thousands, with the potential of so much more. To me, being a radio personality on a Christian radio station is more than just a job, it's a responsibility, as it's another form of ministry. This was a way to reach even more people with a message that's very important me. The message of my faith in Jesus Christ. Now, just a few short months later, I'm having the time of my life!
Co-hosting "The Mike and Victoria Show" on 104.3 The Bridge is a privilege. We don't take it lightly, nor do we take it for granted. Daily, we have the opportunity to share our hopes, dreams, struggles, and most importantly, our faith with loyal listeners. You can hear our show online from anywhere in the world at www.1043thebridge.com or if you're in Central Louisiana on 104.3 on your radio dial every weekday from 10am-2pm (CST).
Not only are Mike and I co-hosting a show on The Bridge, but we're also on the afternoons from 2pm-6pm on 92.3 The Wolf, one of the top country stations in Monroe, Louisiana.
We believe our show has what it takes to one day be in syndication. That's pretty exciting!
I hope you'll be tuning in everyday! Whether you enjoy Christian music or Country, we know you'll have a blast on "The Mike and Victoria Show".
Who knows, like us, you might like both!
Friday, January 10, 2014
Enjoying the Journey
It's 2014. Seems like yesterday when everyone was stocking up on flashlights, batteries, generators, milk and bread because the year 2000 was upon us and the world was going to end! Well, we're still here. I don't think the electricity even went out!
Over the past 14 years, my life has been absolutely crazy good, with a few unfortunate sprinkles of bad. The not so pleasant ones I wish I could take back and change, but I can't. Instead, I've chosen to live and learn from them and then move on, hopeful to not make the same mistakes again. Yet, thankful that the God I love and serve will love me anyway, even if and when I do.
Since 2000, there have been some major life changing events in my life. I went through divorce, my oldest daughter was married, I sent another off to college, moved across the country and back, became a grandmother, I got my heart broken, became a radio show personality and started starring in a reality television show! Whew, I'm tired just thinking about it.
God has been so good to me, in spite of myself. My life has definitely been fun and interesting! Someone once told me, "Enjoy the journey." In the past, it's not been my personality to "stop and smell the roses". On any given day, I'm involved with 10 different things at the same time. But, over the last couple years, I've made a deliberate effort to try harder at mastering this technique of slowing down and savoring the big and little blessings that come my way. And doing pretty well at it, I might add! I want to be a person who appreciates what I have now, instead of longing for what I've lost.
Two years ago when a relationship ended, I was crushed. Sure, I've had my heart broken before, but the healing process took much longer than I'd expected. When you're so sure you know someone, only to find out how wrong you were, it's incredibly painful. That experience caused me to doubt myself, others and even my future. When things don't turn out the way you thought they would, it's time to reflect. As I've asked myself the hard questions after heartbreak or bad decisions, I've come to a conclusion.
Let me start by saying that there've been times in my life that I've been my own worst enemy. I've complained before about my "picker" being "off", but now come to a revelation. My "picker" is just fine.
I have really good instincts. I refer to that still small voice, that sense of wrong or right, as the Holy Spirit. It's not God's fault for the times I choose not to listen. Many times, the Lord has spoken to me and done His best to lead me on a better path than one I was on. Whether it was getting involved with the wrong person, a career decision, or even a purchase. For instance, I heard God loud and clear when He tried to spare me from the pain and humiliation of that last relationship. I just disregarded it because I wanted what I wanted. Sometimes our flesh deceives us. We convince ourselves that things will work out, even when God is saying, "No". And because of His Grace, sometimes they do, but sometimes they just don't.
.
When things go bad in our life, we tend to blame someone other than ourselves. Although it's true, we can't control what someone does to us, lots of times, if not most, we blame God. But, guess what? It's not His fault. We have the freedom to think for ourselves, as well as, make our own decisions. We aren't robots. God takes a lot of undeserving criticism for things that we cause to happen. Other people in our lives may lie, hurt and even cheat on us, that's not God's fault either.
I'm grateful for my life, the people in it and the work that I'm blessed to do each and every day. I pinch myself that I make a living having so much fun!
Recently, I was asked what's missing in my life? I'm truly blessed, fulfilled and content. I am looking forward to sharing my life with a "significant other" one day, sharing his and my successes together and mostly my heart.
But, until that time comes, I'll be enjoying the journey.
Over the past 14 years, my life has been absolutely crazy good, with a few unfortunate sprinkles of bad. The not so pleasant ones I wish I could take back and change, but I can't. Instead, I've chosen to live and learn from them and then move on, hopeful to not make the same mistakes again. Yet, thankful that the God I love and serve will love me anyway, even if and when I do.
Since 2000, there have been some major life changing events in my life. I went through divorce, my oldest daughter was married, I sent another off to college, moved across the country and back, became a grandmother, I got my heart broken, became a radio show personality and started starring in a reality television show! Whew, I'm tired just thinking about it.
God has been so good to me, in spite of myself. My life has definitely been fun and interesting! Someone once told me, "Enjoy the journey." In the past, it's not been my personality to "stop and smell the roses". On any given day, I'm involved with 10 different things at the same time. But, over the last couple years, I've made a deliberate effort to try harder at mastering this technique of slowing down and savoring the big and little blessings that come my way. And doing pretty well at it, I might add! I want to be a person who appreciates what I have now, instead of longing for what I've lost.
Two years ago when a relationship ended, I was crushed. Sure, I've had my heart broken before, but the healing process took much longer than I'd expected. When you're so sure you know someone, only to find out how wrong you were, it's incredibly painful. That experience caused me to doubt myself, others and even my future. When things don't turn out the way you thought they would, it's time to reflect. As I've asked myself the hard questions after heartbreak or bad decisions, I've come to a conclusion.
Let me start by saying that there've been times in my life that I've been my own worst enemy. I've complained before about my "picker" being "off", but now come to a revelation. My "picker" is just fine.
I have really good instincts. I refer to that still small voice, that sense of wrong or right, as the Holy Spirit. It's not God's fault for the times I choose not to listen. Many times, the Lord has spoken to me and done His best to lead me on a better path than one I was on. Whether it was getting involved with the wrong person, a career decision, or even a purchase. For instance, I heard God loud and clear when He tried to spare me from the pain and humiliation of that last relationship. I just disregarded it because I wanted what I wanted. Sometimes our flesh deceives us. We convince ourselves that things will work out, even when God is saying, "No". And because of His Grace, sometimes they do, but sometimes they just don't.
.
When things go bad in our life, we tend to blame someone other than ourselves. Although it's true, we can't control what someone does to us, lots of times, if not most, we blame God. But, guess what? It's not His fault. We have the freedom to think for ourselves, as well as, make our own decisions. We aren't robots. God takes a lot of undeserving criticism for things that we cause to happen. Other people in our lives may lie, hurt and even cheat on us, that's not God's fault either.
I'm grateful for my life, the people in it and the work that I'm blessed to do each and every day. I pinch myself that I make a living having so much fun!
Recently, I was asked what's missing in my life? I'm truly blessed, fulfilled and content. I am looking forward to sharing my life with a "significant other" one day, sharing his and my successes together and mostly my heart.
But, until that time comes, I'll be enjoying the journey.
Saturday, December 28, 2013
Resolutions
This is the time when so many are making New Year's Resolutions. One of mine is to blog more. I've heard from so many of you and I want you to know that I've heard you.
Life is beyond busy for me right now and quite fulfilling. The 2nd Season of "Preachers Daughters" will be coming very soon after the first of the year, so lots of things going on right now.
The blogs coming will be worth the wait. I guarantee it!
Happy New Year!
I miss you.....you know who you are:)
Life is beyond busy for me right now and quite fulfilling. The 2nd Season of "Preachers Daughters" will be coming very soon after the first of the year, so lots of things going on right now.
The blogs coming will be worth the wait. I guarantee it!
Happy New Year!
I miss you.....you know who you are:)
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
My Cup Runneth Over
I would like to share my daughter, Tawni's, blog with you. I absolutely adore this daughter of mine and I couldn't be more proud of the heart she has for people.
Here's the link and I hope you'll consider supporting her new non-profit ministry, "Unto the Least". You can make a tax-deductible donation by going to Paypal: tawniblair@yahoo.com
http://tawnikoloff.blogspot.com/
This proud Mommy thanks you for any help you can provide her ministry.
Here's the link and I hope you'll consider supporting her new non-profit ministry, "Unto the Least". You can make a tax-deductible donation by going to Paypal: tawniblair@yahoo.com
http://tawnikoloff.blogspot.com/
This proud Mommy thanks you for any help you can provide her ministry.
Saturday, November 30, 2013
"A Great Football Kind of Day!"
I don't know whats happened to me the past couple of years! I mean, I've never hated watching football, but it had to be a team that interested me or a good match up. I can't get into a game that's a blow out.
But, the past couple football seasons have been much different and I've been loving me some football more than ever! Monday Nights are now "Buffalo Wing Nights" hanging with family and friends. And it's not just the pro teams, I've developed an interested in college ball as well.
Just last week, I was in a beautiful boxed suite watching Alabama pummel Chattanooga with friends and family! And, although this game WAS a blow out, surprisingly, I had a blast anyway! Goes to show, its not just about the game, but the entire experience! Today, we'll be watching the Auburn/Alabama Game on an 80+ inch screen at our friend's gorgeous 20,000 sq. foot home, overlooking the lake in Tuscaloosa. Good times:). There really is a lot to be said about sharing sports with family and friends and tailgating? Well, that's a whole other experience in itself!
The location, food, company and game today are going to be epic! Of course, I'll be making my signature "Potato Dish" to share and can't wait to see what others bring to the table and hopefully, there's leftover turkey.
I will write soon and share much more about other latest goings on, but for now, I'm still undecided?
Roll Tide or War Eagle?!
But, the past couple football seasons have been much different and I've been loving me some football more than ever! Monday Nights are now "Buffalo Wing Nights" hanging with family and friends. And it's not just the pro teams, I've developed an interested in college ball as well.
Just last week, I was in a beautiful boxed suite watching Alabama pummel Chattanooga with friends and family! And, although this game WAS a blow out, surprisingly, I had a blast anyway! Goes to show, its not just about the game, but the entire experience! Today, we'll be watching the Auburn/Alabama Game on an 80+ inch screen at our friend's gorgeous 20,000 sq. foot home, overlooking the lake in Tuscaloosa. Good times:). There really is a lot to be said about sharing sports with family and friends and tailgating? Well, that's a whole other experience in itself!
The location, food, company and game today are going to be epic! Of course, I'll be making my signature "Potato Dish" to share and can't wait to see what others bring to the table and hopefully, there's leftover turkey.
I will write soon and share much more about other latest goings on, but for now, I'm still undecided?
Roll Tide or War Eagle?!
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